Moving to South Korea is an exciting adventure, but like any new country, understanding the cultural norms can make your experience much smoother. To help you settle in without awkward moments, HaeTek has put together a handy list of do's and don'ts for life in South Korea. Whether you are here for study, work, or travel, these tips will help you navigate daily interactions with confidence.
✅ Do's in South Korea
1️⃣ Bow When Greeting 🙇♀️
In South Korea, bowing is a common way to show respect. A slight bow is enough when greeting someone, thanking them, or saying goodbye. The deeper the bow, the more respect you are showing.
2️⃣ Use Both Hands When Giving or Receiving 🤝
Whether it is handing over money, a gift, or a business card, always use both hands. It is a sign of politeness and shows you value the interaction. When receiving a business card, briefly look at it before putting it away—never stuff it into your pocket immediately.
3️⃣ Public Transportation Etiquette 🚌
Buses and subways can get crowded, especially during rush hour. Stay quiet, avoid talking loudly, and always give up your seat for the elderly, pregnant women, and people with disabilities.
4️⃣ Take Off Your Shoes Indoors 👟
When entering a Korean home—and sometimes even restaurants or guesthouses—you will be expected to remove your shoes at the entrance. Look for provided slippers if you are unsure.
5️⃣ Learn Basic Korean Phrases 🗣️
While many Koreans speak some English, knowing simple phrases like “안녕하세요 - Annyeonghaseyo” (Hello) and “감사합니다 - Gamsahamnida” (Thank you) can go a long way. It shows respect and often makes locals more eager to help you.
6️⃣ Follow Escalator Etiquette 🚶♀️
In South Korea, people typically stand on the right side of the escalator and walk on the left side. This helps keep the flow of traffic smooth, especially during busy hours.
7️⃣ Wait Before Eating 🍽️
It is polite to wait until the eldest person at the table starts eating before you begin. This small gesture shows respect and is common during shared meals.
8️⃣ Be Punctual ⏰
Being on time is important in South Korea, whether it is for work, social gatherings, or appointments. Arriving late can be seen as disrespectful.
❌ Don'ts in South Korea
1️⃣ Don’t Leave Chopsticks Sticking in Rice 🍚
This resembles a ritual for honoring the deceased and is considered bad luck. Instead, rest your chopsticks on the chopstick holder or the side of the plate.
2️⃣ Don’t Speak Loudly in Public 🤫
Koreans value quietness in shared spaces like subways, cafes, and restaurants. Keeping your voice down avoids drawing unwanted attention.
3️⃣ Don’t Touch Someone’s Head 💆♂️
In Korean culture, the head is considered the most sacred part of the body. Even patting someone on the head, especially children or friends, can be seen as disrespectful.
4️⃣ Don’t Pour Your Own Drink 🍻
If you are out socializing, it is customary for others to pour your drink, and you return the favor. When someone pours for you, hold your glass with both hands.
5️⃣ Don’t Ignore Recycling Rules ♻️
South Korea has a strict waste separation system. Food waste, recyclables, and general trash all have separate bins, and not following the rules can lead to fines.
6️⃣ Don’t Blow Your Nose in Public 🤧
Blowing your nose in public, especially at the table, is considered impolite. If you need to, step outside or into a restroom.
7️⃣ Don’t Refuse a Drink Abruptly 🥂
If you are offered a drink (alcoholic or not), it is polite to accept at least one round. If you don’t drink, a simple, friendly explanation is usually enough.
8️⃣ Don’t Tip 💰
Tipping is not customary in South Korea, whether at restaurants, cafes, or in taxis. In fact, leaving a tip might confuse the staff.
Bonus Tip: Stay Flexible and Open-Minded
Cultural differences can sometimes feel overwhelming, but don’t worry—Koreans are generally understanding toward foreigners who are making an effort to adapt. A smile and polite attitude can smooth over most misunderstandings.
💬 What cultural differences surprised you the most when you came to Korea?